42 today. New top, big tea. Could be worse. |
Perspective is always handy in these sorts of situations. I could be ill. I could be dead. I could be unhappy with my own company. I could be attempting to homeschool a brood of children. I could be working long hours in a hospital, pharmacy, or supermarket. I could be living with an abusive partner. I could live in a tiny bedsit with nowhere to walk nearby. None of these things were my reality so all in all, it was a good day. It just took a bit of extra thought to make my birthday feel as nice as it possibly could.
My thumb is covering up wine. If you were in any doubt. |
1. I had breakfast in bed. I never do this usually, but I got up, made toast (with full fat butter no less!) and a cup of tea, and climbed back under the covers. It was lovely. Eat something you usually deny yourself. Luxuriate in the preparation of it. Take it to the most decadent place you can choose. Revel.
2. I had a bath. For some this is a daily event so skip this if it applies. For me, and my annoyingly small cess pit - not a euphemism - it's a weekly rationed pastime. That is, except on my birthday, when my motto of choice is, 'Sod it.' I also shaved my legs, used posh conditioner that I don't normally bother with, and took a lot longer than necessary. Because I could.
New top, nice fields, windblown but conditioned hair. |
A birthday footpath. |
My Scandikitchen order arrived on my birthday. This was purely coincidental but cheered me up no end. |
Get in. (Please note the low calorie milk roll I have included. Always striving for health, me.) |
Full of chips and booze, my birthday was over. The next day, I was fully at peace with the lockdown. Just as I would have been initially, had it not signalled a further tightening of my birthday freedom. As well as the stuff listed above, I also had a House Party chat with some family, received several vouchers for local businesses that I wanted to support, and was given rain-free Spring-like weather. It was a good day. Would it have been better if I'd been able to go out for lunch, get my hair done, have a manicure, and hit the pub that night? Well, yeah, obvs. That goes without saying, surely. But none of that was an option, so I adapted. I'm lucky I could. The longer this goes on, the more boredom will set in. We may become used to the new rubbish normal, but it won't make it any more fun. We have to inject bursts of change into the weeks ahead. If you've got your own special day coming up, for whatever reason, you have the chance to plan ahead. Make a list of fun-injections. Plan your clothes, food, pampering routines, whatever floats your boat. I am here to advise. Use me.
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